Caring for a Person with Multiple Sclerosis
People who care for a person with multiple sclerosis (MS) might feel overwhelmed at times. In addition to the physical demands, multiple sclerosis caregivers must also deal with doctor appointments, health insurance companies and more. On top of that, multiple sclerosis caregivers must also deal with the emotional aspects of their work. Many often experience feelings of sadness, guilt or even anger.
While caring for a multiple sclerosis patient might seem overwhelming at times, there are a few things you can do to make your job easier. Here are a few tips for caring for a person with multiple sclerosis.
Before Your Begin Your Care
Before you offer to care for a person with multiple sclerosis, you should make yourself as familiar with the condition as possible. Take the time to research the disease and learn the disease's symptoms, complications, potential causes and more.
Talk to your patient's health care provider about your patient's condition. Learn the symptoms from which your patient suffers and the severity of your patient's MS. Having this basic knowledge will make you a better and more informed caregiver.
Before you begin offering care, you should also make up a list of your patient's needs. While this list should include needs related to multiple sclerosis, it should also include needs related to your patient's everyday life. For example, will you need to do your patient's grocery shopping or drive him to and from work? Sit down with your patient and talk to him in order to create this list.
Talk to your patient's health care provider about your patient's condition. Learn the symptoms from which your patient suffers and the severity of your patient's MS. Having this basic knowledge will make you a better and more informed caregiver.
Before you begin offering care, you should also make up a list of your patient's needs. While this list should include needs related to multiple sclerosis, it should also include needs related to your patient's everyday life. For example, will you need to do your patient's grocery shopping or drive him to and from work? Sit down with your patient and talk to him in order to create this list.
General Health Concerns
When caring for a person with multiple sclerosis, you will need to be concerned with his general health. If your patient maintains good general health, his MS symptoms are likely to be less severe. Here's a guideline for monitoring basic health issues:
- Discuss your patient's neuromuscular and musculoskeletal functioning with his doctor at least once a year. This will help you determine if your patient's MS is improving or declining.
- Have your patient see a psychologist at least once a year for evaluation. This can help spot emotional issues that your patient might be unwilling to discuss with you or others.
- Make sure your patient gets a physical exam at least once a year. This exam should include routine cancer screenings, including mammograms and Pap smears for women and prostate and rectal exams for men.
Daily Concerns
In addition to the above-mentioned yearly evaluations, you will need to monitor some issues on a daily basis. These include:
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Bladder & Bowel Function: While people with multiple sclerosis often have bladder and bowel problems, it is important to report any new problems to your doctor.
If your patient has trouble unzipping or unbuttoning his pants to use the restroom, consider buying pants with elastic waistbands. -
Daily Activities: How much assistance do you have to provide your patient when they perform such daily activities as eating, dressing, cooking, etc.? If the degree to which you need to help your patient changes suddenly or drastically, consult his physician.
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Mobility: How mobile is your patient? Is he able to move around the house and community? Is he able to operate a car? If your patient is having problems moving around, his doctor might be able to provide helpful equipment, such as braces, canes or wheelchairs.
- Skin Condition: Make sure your patient's skin isn't suffering from sores due to immobility or decreased sensitivity. Report any skin problems to the doctor.
Taking Care of Yourself
In order to provide good care to your patient, you must take care of yourself, both mentally and physically. Take some time each day to do something you enjoy, even if you are only able to close your eyes and relax for 10 minutes. Also, consult a doctor or therapist if you are experiencing any symptoms of depression.
Remember that it's okay to ask for help. Look in to getting an in-home nurse if necessary. Also, ask your patient's doctor for information on MS caregiver support groups.
Resources
Curry, Grace. Multiple Sclerosis: Getting and Managing Health Care Needs. Retrieved June 20, 2007, from Caregiver Magazine Web site: http://www.caregiver.com/articles/MS/ms_getting_and_
managing.htm.
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Last Modified: January 26, 2010